Why do women like bad boys, everyone told them not to be involved with them, but they want them and seek them and love them?
Why do women crave a bad boy type of a guy, scorching bad boy quality? Or maybe it's because of a bad psychology: that women really do not know what’s good for them? Believe it or not, there is a certain need for a bad boy type which is deeply unconscious, full of danger and women are irresistibly attracted to it. Not all women, but some women.
It is so good to be bad, does it really give results? More often than not there is underlying spiritual problem that a person must face, the search of unconditional love, you give others what you want to give for yourself. That's why it won't work with every woman, but for some women it's a magnet. A magnet to experience to love unconditionally despite of anything and everything. It is so tempting to be good in your own eyes, sacrifice, love unconditionally, that's the attraction that bad boys are able to create.
Why would a normal woman subject yourself to abuse and feeling of being unwanted or not good enough, it's because a woman is in love with a fantasy, to save him and change him and it makes her look good in her own eyes.
Women love the little bad things found in men. Some do so because they love the drama. A relationship with bad men gets most women’s juices up and flowing, it is dangerous and it is exciting. A date with them is unpredictable. They don't have emotional stability, security, they have no control. Meanwhile, a date with a normal man could be nice, simple, conventional and unsurprising. What follows after a quiet dinner may be a talk, and then some more talk, and a walk. Comfortable, safe and sometimes it might even be romantic. Although some do find such a scenario boring.
Sometimes, a date or a relationship with all the badness found in men is a great topic for a conversation for women the next day. Women are addicted to drama and emotions. Women like to talk, think and ponder about how bad boys have been bad, etc. However, women also enjoy talking about how their men has been good, usually sexually or in entertaining manner.
Women can't resist the excitement that feeling of loss of control gives them. Loosing control and love unconditionally can feel addictive, you just can't be prepared to enjoy pain, it's just happens and emotions follow.
Women love fantasy and bad boy gives them plenty to think about and ponder about, planning the next move, the next safe gesture of control. Bad boys are only bad because they can. More often than not, a bad boy type is a man who has no to little interest in being committed or sacrifice. Bad boys are takers, they are selfish and some women do let them. They spoiled because they can, it's just a power play in a relationship, bad boys have the power and women not.
Fortunately or unfortunately, bad men make women feel variety of emotions, good and bad and she is never sure where she stands in front of him.
However, there should really be no excuse for being bad. Some men were raised selfish, always wanted a good life and pleasure and didn't learn to sacrifice enough, some are just plain insensitive and no amount of patience, hope, wishing and dreaming could cover up for his badness. Believe it or not, they may be more in love with themselves than in anyone else. Try, as much as possible, to not fall for his own professions of his love for you. Chances are, and there is a great chance of this happening, his I-love-you’s may be his way to get what he wants with you.
All in all, dating bad men is good only for that purpose alone – dating. Adventure, sexual or otherwise, is good for the short term. Long term relationships require mutual trust and respect, a little kinkiness also wouldn’t hurt at all.